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We spend most of our lives trying to figure out who we are and build our identities. We grow fond of this person we’ve created. It’s no wonder one of the biggest fears I hear from singles is that they’ll lose themselves once in a relationship. That fear is persistent as I often hear from those in long-term relationship, that they feel lost.

A recent study from the University of Liverpool in the U.K. confirmed these feelings. Of the men and women who had entered into a married or cohabiting relationship for the first time during the study, many noted they experienced a loss of their single identities specifically after moving in with their partners.

While it’s common for couples to begin doing everything together, one of the most important elements of succeeding at your relationship is to continue letting your individual identity shine. Your personal identity is what keeps your relationship healthy and balanced.

Loosing yourself can lead to feeling stuck in your relationship and having unfulfilled desires. Whether you’ve already lost yourself or are just getting into a serious relationship, if you want balance in your relationship – do these 5 things:

  1. Have A Regular Date Night With Your Friends.

Sure, your friends are my friends, kumbaya and all that jazz, but having a healthy relationship at home means having healthy relationships outside of the home with friends and family. Don’t be one of those people who get into a relationship and are never seen again socially without their significant other.

  1. Pursue Your Passion Project.

Remember that side project you were super passionate about when you met your significant other? It’s a part of the reason whey they fell in love with you. So don’t lose that side of yourself. Keep your passion projects going because accomplishing that goal will fulfill you.

  1. Take A Weekend Away Without Your Significant Other.

Research shows that time away from your significant other may help you feel more independent and personally fulfilled. Plus, if you are cohabiting or married, this time away can lead to actually missing one another. In turn making you closer once you return.

  1. Learn Something New About Yourself.

Self-development is a key factor in maintaining your independence. Take a seminar, get some coaching, learn how to meditate and discover something new about yourself. Learning how to recreate yourself within your relationship is invaluable.

  1. Get A Hobby.

Let your passions and discovery collide in a hobby you can call your own. Love to paint? Want to learn how to write that novel? Do you love saving puppies? No matter what you’re into, there’s a class, meet-up or an organization that can help you maintain that hobby and have you doing things you love and enjoy.

People who lose themselves in their relationships tend to regret that decision later on in life. You must be proactive in your social life and participate in outside activities in order to maintain balance and personal identity in your relationship.

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