Must Read: What You Must Consider Before Starting A Relationship/Falling In Love - Gidifans

You Are Here: Home » Relationship » Must Read: What You Must Consider Before Starting A Relationship/Falling In Love - By Mr. Maraj On September 21, 2016 At 11:51 am

Okay so before this guy i thought i had the perfect idea of what love really is.What relationship is all about. I thought it was just like what we see in the movie.. I’m sure you’ve seen the titanic and some others lol..

Little did i know it takes more than the i love you stuff… it takes more than the tag “he’s my guy,she’s my girl stuff. Relationship takes a lot effort and time.. It’s a lot more than follow up (texting/calling). Then this guy came into the picture and changed everything.. I got to realize to build a solid/healthy relationship isn’t a day job, in fact i’m still learning lol.

I got to understand before you get into a relationship you have to find out if you both want the same thing..

If you really want to work things either a YES or NO. Relationship begins with understanding what love really is… It ain’t just about him/her completing you. Just like a solid relationship involves two people on the same side, you have to know it is not just about loving each other, just like the saying “you only get what you can give” you have to love yourself first..!! Forging relationship seems quite easy but it requires time..tact’s.

Get to know each other, understand each other’s lifestyle to have a friendly relationship. A good relationship also comes with happiness which includes creating real intimacy which makes it easy to realize each other’s defect. Also believe and support each other, value each other’s decision and aim to help each other.

Just like we all know trust is earned, not given, understand to have a good and solid relationship trust is essential. You have to trust and respect each other, choosing to be in a relationship means choosing to trust one another.

Also learn to speak up when you think something is not right or something’s bothering you, speak to your partner about it instead of holding it in.

And yes, it is also normal to argue which is part of a solid relationship , but it is also important to find a way to settle your dispute. Realize your partner cant fill your every need. See your partner the way he/she really is and learn from each other how to improve and be a better person. Go out on a date. Remember the way to a lady’s heart is her ears.. and the way to a man’s heart is his stomach.. Create a friendly romance and promote it with good communication. Give comments. Make your partner feel good and be honest.

And lastly don’t be over-secretive… Be limpid. But remember just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you have to tell/show everything to your partner and be together constantly. Privacy is allowed. Give space. So try as much as possible to avoid pitfalls to reap the reward of a positive and solid relationship. * Respect each others privacy/decision *Keep things lighthearted *Honesty is also a key.


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